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Sometimes referred to as orgasm control or climax manipulation, edging is the practice of purposefully delaying your orgasm to maintain a higher level of arousal for an extended period of time, often to heighten your pleasure when you do orgasm. There are a number of ways to actually practice edging, including different techniques and exercises, but the gist of it is this: when you feel an orgasm coming on, try to avoid it by lessening or stopping stimulation. Rinse and repeat.
The male orgasm is a complex experience. The major function of the male orgasm is to ejaculate sperm, although not all men will ejaculate during an orgasm. Beyond delivering pleasure, the role of the female orgasm is less clear, although it may help move the sperm closer toward the ovum egg.
Some facts of life are sad but true, and one of these facts is that climaxing for many women is anything but easy. In fact, a recent survey from Valparaiso University in Indiana showed that more than half of women who struggle to orgasm attribute the problem to anxiety. Plus, because of the complex nature of the condition, other hangups can be heightened during sex, causing a vicious cycle of worry and frustration.
Photo by Alexey Kuzma, via Stocksy. Often overlooked in these sexy guides, however, is the simple and incredibly effective technique known as edging. Not to be confused with the lawn-maintenance term that also bears its name, edging is a technique for bringing yourself or others, or all of you together!
The Chinese were the first to figure this outmore than 3, years ago, when they realized that men could have multiple full-body orgasms by withholding ejaculation. These days, though, most of us are focused on a singular goal: getting off. In the normal, everyday sort of ejaculation my pleasure is quickly over with.
Many a professional dominatrix will tell you she will not allow submissives to orgasm during the session. I did. Mainly because if they did cum halfway through, it meant I could clock off early and get on with a nice boxset.
Speaking as a male, I can't think of anything that remotely equals the thrill of an orgasm. What's weird is that, for all the attention it receives, the male orgasm doesn't get talked about in much detail despite the fact that there can be a huge difference in intensity from one to the next. My guess is that the most women don't know this. With this information gap in mind, I set out to discover what, exactly, makes for the most bone-rattling, foundation-shaking male orgasms, and what women can do to encourage their arrival.
Experts reveal how you can keep the feeling going for as long as 20 seconds — and reap the benefits…. Women might draw the short straw when it comes to many areas of physiology, but not when it comes to orgasms. On top of this, women are capable of having multiple climaxes in a single romp — some even report having orgasms into the double figures.
Imagine having full ejaculation control. You can make love with your partner as long as you want. You can fuck her as hard as you want, as long as you want, in any position you want, without cumming, unless you wanted to. Maybe you can already last for quite a while but would like to be able to keep going for hours.